We love any excuse to sit down and gossip with our girlfriends, so why not look good and eat scrumptious food while doing so? After all, we have yet to eat a sandwich we didn’t like. With a variety of high tea options available in Brisbane, from charming cafes to luxurious hotels, you're sure to find the perfect setting for your next catch up!
Of course, no tea party is complete without the perfect attire! Read on and we've answered all your burning questions about high tea dress code. It’s not every day you get to dine like royalty, so make sure you dress to the occasion too!
Best High Teas in Brisbane
Looking for the best high tea in our hometown of Brisbane? Here are just some of the beautiful venues serving delicate crustless sandwiches and bottomless teapots of Earl Grey.
Arguably one of the most iconic venues in Brisbane, Patina at Customs House offers a high tea with uninterrupted views of the Brisbane river and of the Story Bridge. And it’s not just your traditional high tea; here, sandwiches and canapés are served with a glass of Tattinger Champagne - you know we love our bubbles here at Blue Bungalow (and we know you do too, judging from all the bottles consumed in store over the years).
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As you would expect from the W chain of hotels, there is nothing ordinary about its high tea offering! Think afternoon tea is a dated concept? Well, think again. Their exquisite Pretty In Pink High Tea boasts a menu that will please even the most modern and discerning palates.
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Walking through the heritage-listed Brisbane Arcade is a blast from the past in itself, but add ribbon sandwiches and raspberry scones and you’d think you just hopped in a time machine! Room With Roses offers three different high tea menus, including the option to add a chocolate fondue - the perfect spot to sit down and escape the hustle and bustle of the city.
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Located on Brisbane’s South Bank, Emporium Hotel’s Belle Époque restaurant is famous for its in-house pastry team and the seasonal high tea menu created by its chefs. Their autumn menu includes delicacies such as a fried caufliflower and brie tart, and freshly baked date scones served with raspberry & rosella jam. Oh, and did we mention that you’ll feel like you just stepped into a Parisian patisserie thanks to the opulent decor? Oui, s'il vous plait! And while you’re there, why not book yourself in for a massage at the hotel’s spa and turn it into an afternoon of pampering, complete with a dip in the infinity pool!
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Bring the littlies along and introduce them to high tea with Shingle Inn’s Teddy Bear High Tea - the perfect way to bring generations together in an iconic location! The kids will relish in a selection of ham & cheese ribbon sandwiches, teddy bear fairy bread and patty cakes whilst the adults enjoy one of the high tea menus on offer and sip a glass or two of Pol Roger champagne - the perfect way to babysit the grandkids if you ask us!
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Short of heading out for a country escape, Balfour Kitchen & Bar in New Farm is about as close as you’ll get to feeling like you’re in the hinterland without leaving Brisbane. You can enjoy treats on the old Queenslander’s verandah, complete with stunning views of the Story Bridge, or sit in the courtyard under the Frangipani trees. Bookings are a must as high tea is a special event, hosted only once a month!
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High Tea in Sydney
If you want to feel like a princess for the day, then look no further than The Tea Room in Sydney’s famous Queen Victoria Building. Glamorous crystal chandeliers, high vaulted ceilings, plush velvet chairs - yup, you’ll be having high tea in a ballroom. Delicacies such as petits fours are served in Royal Albert fine china and some of the finest and rarest single estate teas are on offer to please even the most demanding of tea snobs! If you’re gluten-free, you’ll be happy to know that there’s a menu just for you - and no need to put in a special request, it’s available daily.
Psst! This is the perfect backdrop for a European-inspired Instagram shot, just put on some red lipstick and a beret and you’re good to go.
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High Tea in Melbourne
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The decor at this Collingwood tea salon is straight out of a movie set; the walls are painted fire engine red, the guests are seated on gothic velvet sofas and the atmosphere is moody. So different and so very Melbourne! Guests have the option to choose between a few different high tea packages, including a vegan menu which is hard to come by when scones are involved. The best part and the reason why this high tea made our list in the first place? Artisan chocolates handmade by Chef De Patisserie Janet McKenzie - need we say more.
High Tea in Perth
Located in the iconic Crown Hotel in Perth, Bistro Guillaume is the perfect choice for those seeking an elegant Parisian feel with a modern twist. Picture light spanner crab sandwiches, classic confit duck wrapped in puff pastry, and decadent chocolate ganache tarts, accompanied by a selection of delightful teas (or a glass of bubbles if you're feeling luxurious). Whether you're staying at the hotel, in close proximity, or are simply a Perth local, Bistro Guillaume is a must-add to your list of experiences.
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High Tea in Canberra
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If you like a cocktail with your tea then this is the place for you! Start with a Tea Party Cocktail - bourbon, peach liqueur & spiced vanilla syrup topped with T2 French Earl Grey tea - and enjoy an array of sweet and savoury treats which include duck floss served with orange curd in a shortcrust pastry and a Chai panna cotta served in a tea cup. How’s that for fun?!
High Tea in Adelaide
There’s only one thing in life that we love more than tea and fashion - coffee! So when we saw the High Coffee available at Intercontinental’s Riverside Restaurant we knew we had to add it to the list. Listen to this: an espresso martini on arrival, continuous coffee while you indulge in a selection of classic sandwiches, hot pies and buttermilk scones and an affogato to finish, served with an espresso lamington and wattle seed macaroons with Callebaut chocolate-coffee curd. We’re feeling jittery just thinking about it. If tea is your thing, don’t worry the tea menu looks just as good!
Image Credit: Intercontinental Adelaide
Answering your Frequently Asked Questions
What is the dress code for high tea?
So you’ve planned your outing, but what should you wear to high tea? And can you wear jeans? Now, we won’t tell you what you can and can’t wear, but high tea dress code is formal or smart casual so we would opt for a dress, skirt or trousers over your faithful pair of jeans. And, let’s be honest, who doesn’t like having an excuse to pull out their prettiest frocks!
Can you wear black to a high tea?
There’s no rule against black for high tea dress code, and in fact, we’ve seen some black outfits that are PERFECT for high tea. But, keep in mind, black is usually better suited to evening events while lighter shades are fitting for daytime events. For something more standout than ivory or grey, look for pastel colours or subtle patterns in floral or polka dot.
Blue Bungalow, home of high tea fashion! Who knew?
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What is high tea etiquette?
No need to raise your pinky finger when you’re drinking your cup of tea, if that’s what you’re thinking. But you may want to mind your manners.
Finger sandwiches can be eaten with... you guessed it, your hands. But use the serving tongs or your fork to bring them from the platter stand to your plate before indulging. Cakes and other sweets, on the other hand, should be eaten with a fork or dessert spoon.
As for scones, eat as you would a breadroll, breaking it off in bite-sized pieces with your hands before adding jam and clotted cream - yum! And no, we’re not weighing in on the whole “jam or cream first on a scone” debate - but we’ll let you take a stand in the comments below.
What should you not do at a tea party?
As a more formal event, there are some no-nos for high-tea dining. Keep your phone and handbag off the table, as this can be seen as rude and clutters the table for waitstaff. Take small bites of food so you can still enjoy conversation without talking through a mouthful. As for your tea, take the spoon out before sipping (don’t lick the spoon!) and always hold the teacup by the handle. Don’t dunk any food into your tea, blow on it to cool down or sip it loudly. That’s not what the Queen would have wanted!
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